Header Text - Deb Blum - Aug 2021

There comes a point in your life when it's clear that you need to take your power back, stop living according to other people's expectations and courageously step toward living your life in alignment with what's most true for YOU.

And now's that time.

What I know for sure is that none of us want to wake up when we're in our 70s and wonder why we let ourselves worry about so many things that weren't important. Or why we held back or played small - dimmed our light, so to speak - worried that we'd upset or disappoint others. Or that we lived a half-lived life because we got trapped in the rat race.

It doesn't have to be that way.

What I know is that you don’t need more strategies or formulas, quick fix solutions, bigger goals, or willpower.

You’ve tried them already and they haven’t worked — because they’re based on the idea that you'll be okay, lovable and happy only when you do better, do more, or change. 

Getting what you want starts with self-love. Self-love isn't airy fairy woo-woo stuff or a luxury. It's the path that gets us from here to true fulfillment, inner peace and happiness. And the path that creates the inner safety and courage to become who you're here to be. 

“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” ~ C.G. Jung  

It's time to love yourself the way that you needed to be loved as a child so that you can free yourself from your past and create a life that is aligned with who you truly are!

Then you'll see get to see all that's possible for you on this journey we call life.


And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. -Anais Nin (2)

Woman Climbing HER Mountain

I think of the journey of self-love, authenticity and radical shadow integration like climbing a mountain. There may be switchbacks or rockslides, deer paths you can barely see or well-worn trails, slippery slopes and dead-ends. It helps to have a friend who can help you find your feet as you gain the strength to reach new heights.

To live, lead and love with purpose.

To give the world your unique gifts.

To become the woman you're meant to be. 

Helping women climb their own personal mountains is my specialty. Consider me your guide. 

About Deb


Deb Blum is a Self-Love + Authenticity Coach and a Wholeness Warrior on a mission to help women finally make themselves a priority, take radical responsibility for their own happiness, and greet every part of themselves with acceptance, and yes - love! Deb is a wayfinder for women who struggle with overwhelm and overgiving, who put everyone else’s needs before their own, and who look like they’ve got it together (while they’re falling apart inside). 

A true believer that inner work is the path to happiness, fulfillment and purpose, Deb’s work is to guide women back to themselves. 

In her former career as a corporate consultant, Deb found she had a gift for seeing the big picture, the end goal, and all the steps in between. Now she uses those gifts to help women open up fresh vistas of possibilities, and show them how to get there by living authentically. 

The world tells women a million ways they need to change. Deb believes that when women live on their own terms, they can change the world. 

Deb Blum is trained as a certified health, life and conscious parent coach. She's also the founder of the Self-Love Basecamp membership program, host of her own YouTube channel and the co-host of the Parenting 3.0 Podcast. She lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her husband of 19 years and two teenage sons.

If you're curious, let's hop on a call.

Deb Blum

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.

- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Where Are You On the Self-Love Journey? And What's Next?

Download the Trigger Trail Buddy

This is the only guide designed to show you how to USE your triggers to discover the hidden self-love gems that they're pointing to WITHIN YOU. When you take the time AFTER you've been in the grips of a trigger to understand and explore what happened using the Trigger Trail Buddy, you'll not only learn to love yourself more but you'll also stop getting so triggered in the future!

The Self-Love Trail Guide

Thinking that you'd like to focus on self-love and living more authentically, but you aren't ready to commit a membership or coaching.

The Self-Love Trail Guide includes a little pre-work (done by you) + a focused coaching session and you walk away knowing exactly what you need to do to get started on the self-love journey!

Self-Love Basecamp Membership

You’re ready to make changes to live authentically, to care for yourself more deeply, and to show up as the woman you’re meant to be. But you need accountability and support to keep self-love on top of your to-do list.

Join my private membership with community support for women who do so much but never feel enough.

Courage to Climb 1:1 Coaching Program

You’re an experienced climber, but you haven’t fully explored the shadow side of your mountain and know you need a guide. Together, we’ll explore the dark places you may not have been able to reach on your own so you can finally stop the reactions and behaviors keeping you from living your best life. This is for you if you’re ready for radical realness, radical wholeness, and radical authenticity.

High Altitude 1:1 Coaching Program

You are the type of person who doesn’t settle for good enough. You know you can always be better, learn more, make your rough edges softer. You may not have to do as much healing work, but you want to stand fully in your power when handling conflict and react with consciousness, clarity, calm and integrity even when triggered. You’re here so you can lead with your whole self. Push your edges to lead from a place of loving integrity.

Get To Know Me Better First

Check out videos, articles & audios highlighting Deb's life-changing messages. On her YouTube Channel, she explores life and parenting through the lens of self-love, personal growth, authenticity and shadow integration. On her Parenting Podcast, she and her co-host discuss how to raise emotionally healthy kids. You may also want to read her blog and explore where she's been interviewed and featured!

Emotional Triggers are Trailheads back to YOU! 

Grab this (FREE) proven process to use to help you calm down after you're triggered and then mine your trigger for self-love treasures AFTER you feel calm enough to do some inner exploration. You get to find places inside you that need your love and become less easily triggered, too!

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